Thursday, July 9, 2009

How to become popular?

Develop your people skills and be popular. All the popular people share a common character, people skills.

Step out of your comfort zone. Popular people generally make conversations, crack jokes, flirt, in fact they are always engaged in doing something. If you are a shy kind of person, you must be brave to come out of your situation and prepare to be bold. You must be friendly to be popular. Always be ready to start a conversation be it friends or strangers. Always keep a smile on your face. Stay away from controversial topics and be polite.

Do not think about yourself. Do not worry about how you look, how you dress, how you sound and how you judge. Always try to look from others point of view. Try to relate the topics you talk to them, make them involve in what you do. Always try to encourage others to talk.

Try to be others helping hand. Do not ignore what other people say, listen to them carefully, and try to help as much as you can. Do not be selfish. Respect the other people’s feelings; make them feel comfortable while sharing their feelings. If you cannot help them in anyway, at least tell them that you are with them.

Be yourself do not try too hard. If you cannot say or do anything nice, don’t say or do it. Avoid negative gossip.